Posts Tagged Susan Whitman Helfgot
Orange is the New Black by Piper Kerman [Spiegel & Grau]
–at turns daunting, authentic, provocative and spellbinding. The best part is that it’s about women from all different backgrounds bonding to endure a miserable situation.
WAR by Sebastian Junger [Twelve]
–Junger brings much needed attention to this ongoing war on terrorism. So little is written about Afghanistan in the press yet it’s a fierce, exhaustive war. Junger also includes and honest assessment about the war in Afghanistan and the attitudes of the troops.
The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot [Crown]
It Could Be Worse, You Could Be Me by Ariel Leve [Harper Perennial]
–Leve is a major pessimist, sets low standards to avoid disappointment, would rather stay in bed than get dressed and made up to go to a party that *might* not be worth her time. She expresses in print what most of us think. She’s observant, sharply critical and savvy. Leve’s irreverent voice and bittersweet outlook mingle in an erudite, esoteric manner.
Half A Life by Darin Strauss [McSweeney’s]
–At 18, Strauss hit a girl while driving and she died. He examines his feelings related to the girl who died as well as the accident and its aftermath. Strauss writes honestly, exquisitely and provides a thorough examination of this profoundly personal experience. Half A Life is a provocative, intense read.
Bitch is the New Black by Helena Andrews [Harper]
–another stand-out memoir by a strong, opinionated, independent woman who has achieved monumental professional success but by society’s standards hasn’t yet hit her stride on the personal front.
FURY by Karen Zailckas [Viking Adult]
–After spending many years binge drinking and writing about it in the best-seller Smashed, Zailckas wanted to examine women’s relationship to anger. In doing so, she realized she had a lot of her own.
A Ticket to the Circusby Norris Church Mailer [Random House]
The Match by Susan Whitman Helfgot [Simon & Schuster]
–Reinforcing the importance of organ donation through the story of two men who never meet but whose lives intersect in a remarkable manner, The Match is a vastly informative and engulfing read.
CLEOPATRA by Stacy Schiff [Little, Brown]
Title: The Match: Complete Strangers, a Miracle Face Transplant, Two Lives Transformed
Author: Susan Whitman Helfgot
Hardcover: 272 pages
Publisher: Simon & Schuster (October 12, 2010)
Her husband’s nose is now on a man with brown eyes and dark hair. And it really is Joseph’s nose on Maki.
Although I live in Boston and have been going to doctors at Brigham and Women’s Hospital for more than a decade, I learned of the facial transplant story by watching the documentary BostonMed last summer. When I heard that Susan Whitman Helfgot [with William Novak] wrote a book about it, I immediately had to read it. The Match is a book that is several things rolled into one: the story of organ donation and the transplant process; a great love story; and a story of hope and renewal.
Susan Helfgot writes the compelling story of the last kind act her husband made that will forever affect Maki and his family. The same age, both men led vastly different lives. Biographical elements weave in between hospital scenes. The Match delves into both men’s pasts and creates vivid portraits for the reader.
Joseph Helfgot was a sociology professor at Boston University when he met Susan. A convivial man, he developed a successful music marketing business in Los Angeles. The son of Holocaust survivors, Joseph had a keen work ethic and a zest for magical moments whether at a Hollywood screening, having rooftop dinners with his wife or spending Passover with his family. On the other hand, James Maki is a Vietnam veteran and former drug-addict. A horrific accident—a fall onto the electrical third track at an MBTA subway station—left him without a face and with little hope to change his life and improve his relationship with his college-aged daughter.
The hand surgeons have started attaching the sentinel flap. While they work, Pomahac and Pribaz begin to connect nerves on either side of Maki’s face, using a technique known as neurorrhaphy. It is painfully slow going as the doctors knit together Helfgot’s and Maki’s tiny nerves, one suture at a time. Nerves near the surface will provide sensation, allowing Maki to feel steam rising from a cup of hot coffee or a light breeze on a warm day. Other nerves, sutured deeper in the face, will one day allow him to chew and swallow. They are piecing together a kind of 3-D jigsaw puzzle, one tiny segment at a time.
The Match includes a detailed description of the exhaustive, intense and amazing surgery. A world-renowned teaching and research hospital, Brigham and Women’s Hospital is home to the finest surgical team of varied specialists led by Dr. Bo Pomahac, director of Brigham and Women’s Burn Center; and Dr. Julian Pribaz, director of the Harvard Plastic Surgery Resident Program. The team completes the second face transplant in the United States [this leads to a huge Department of Defense grant to Brigham and Women’s Hospital for more surgeries]. Personally, I have been to see Dr. Pribaz [for exploratory hand surgery on an edema], a supremely kind, talented plastic surgeon who travels the world reconstructing noses and other body parts.
Reinforcing the importance of organ donation through the story of two men who never meet but whose lives intersect in a remarkable manner, The Match is a vastly informative and engulfing read.
[author note: I’ve been listed as an organ donor for years. My former friend’s uncle needed a kidney and I was dumbfounded that my friend wouldn’t even consider being tested to see if he was a match. He said he might need both kidneys himself one day. It certainly wasn’t the first thing to surprise me about Brian but I found it indicative of his selfish personality.]