Posts Tagged Samantha Mathis
Venus and Serena
Somehow I never knew Venus and Serena Williams grew up in Compton, California. So extra accolades to them for succeeding as they have. The documentary shows early interview and stock footage as well as current interview footage. As with 99% of successful professional athletes the sisters missed out on a lot growing up. But I think they’ve made up for lost time and don’t seem to have missed out on youthful silliness plus they had each other. Their days revolved around tennis and school. It’s also wonderful to see the tight bonds between Venus and Serena as well as with their mom, dad (now divorced) and their sisters and family members. These are remarkable, spirited and giving women who adore tennis and don’t intend to retire any time soon. Venus and Serena are trailblazers for women in sports and African-American women in sports.
70% of women need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. A sex shop owner said that many women don’t even know how to find their clitoris. Blame it on a lack of sex education. Big pharmaceutical companies and medical industries developed Viagra for men and now want to capitalize on a fabricated women’s “disease” called female sexual dysfunction (FSD). Women have long been programmed to believe that not achieving an orgasm through intercourse indicates something flawed.
Director Liz Canner exposes this greedy, disruptive and manipulative process in the intelligent and disturbing Orgasm, Inc. The company Vivus, planning to develop an orgasm cream for women, hired Canner to create erotic videos to aid in the clinical trial phase. Canner spent nine years researching the pharmaceutical and medical industries and their relationships to female pleasure. These big pharma companies wanted to be the first to develop products to treat FSD. They would make tons of money but the side-effects and risks outweigh the benefits. Still, many “sex experts” such as Laura Berman, PhD work with pharma companies to publicize their drugs. You know all the drug commercials we’re bombarded with on television and in magazines? Ronald Reagan signed the direct-to-consumer advertising law. Only the United States and New Zealand allow direct-to-consumer advertising by pharmaceutical companies. It’s rather sad if you really contemplate it. People see the commercials and a seed gets planted that something might be wrong with them that can be cured with a pill. It’s just not that simple in our fast-paced, high stress environment. She receives a whopping $75, 000/ day.
Canner approaches the topic in a refreshing manner. She speaks to clinical researchers, sex educators, scholars, activists and a variety of women. Orgasm, Inc. is a compelling and thoroughly researched documentary. It’s a must-see.
Searching for Debra Winger
Rosanna Arquette’s documentary on women in film. Amazing and very honest commentary from stars from Gwyneth Paltrow to Whoopi to Vanessa Redgrave to Selma Hayek to Charlotte Rampling to of course Debra Winger. It’s great that these women feel comfortable with age but sad to see the frustration and that there still is the issue of great roles for women over 30. Instead of the wife, the girlfriend and that women have to make a choice of career or family, many making only one film per year. There’s a discussion by a group of 30somethings including Martha Plimpton and Samantha Mathis that televison roles are actually better these days which is a huge flip from the past, film actors never went to tv and also focusing on the stage. And then sadly they talked about many directors and producers wanting to find the “fuckibility factor.” Patricia Arquette spoke of an inappropriate producer and how she had to do a sex scene for “Human Nature” and asked that he not be there and was told he wasn’t, found out he was and pulled the director aside and told him he had a lot to learn and for a scene like that she needed to feel safe and he blew it.
Possibly the first film based on a song that I’ve seen, Unanswered Prayers [a Garth Brooks hit] focuses on an All-American couple in the South. It’s a small town where it seems that many end up marrying classmates from high school. Full disclosure: Lifetime press release states that Ben [Eric Close] and Lorrie [Samantha Mathis] are “living the American dream.” A closer look at this dream life is being in debt and close to losing the family business as well as their son having his “best chance at getting a scholarship to school” by playing football, according to his dad. The son is more artistic and has other plans that trying to live out his dad’s failed dreams. That may be middle-Americans dream life but it’s not for me. That’s too domestic and I’m too urban. I need to be surrounded by sirens, people, grit, buildings and museums. Ben’s high school girlfriend, the sultry and thrice-married Ava [Madchen Amick], returns to town due to her mother’s death. Suddenly Ben wonders if he made the right choice in marrying Lorrie and staying around town.
Ben: “You were smart getting out of Dodge.”
Ava: “I’ve lived all over the world, Ben. Dodge is looking pretty good to me.”
Apparently Lorrie had a crush on Ben in the 4th grade [and of course as one grows up we don’t change at all especially when going off to college] and he was the popular jock who didn’t really notice her. Particularly as he was dating Ava, the hot new girl in town. But 20 years later, it’s not that easy to leave the life that one has become comfortable with for one that may or may not have materialized. Apparently these people didn’t change or grow all that much. Not surprisingly, Samantha Mathis puts in the most credible performance. Unanswered Prayers attempts to explore relationships, particularly marriage, but doesn’t really delve that deeply into why Lorrie and Ben are together or why Ben and Ava were such a great couple when they were teens. If I were traditional, I might like this movie more than I did.
Unanswered Prayers premieres Monday, November 29 at 9PM ET/PT on Lifetime Movie Network