Bond of Silence, Lifetime Movie: TV review

August 22, 2010

Inspired by a true story, Bond of Silence details the quest for truth of Katy McIntosh (Kim Raver). Katy’s athletic husband mysteriously dies when he tries to talk to a neighborhood teenager on New Year’s Eve at an out-of-control house party. In the picturesque and protected community, the teenagers stick together and refuse to disclose any information. Their parents collude to protect their children and prevent Katy from discovering the truth about her husband’s death. Stress and guilt start to wreak havoc among the close-knit group of friends. Along with a local detective (Greg Grunberg) Katy attempts to break up the bond and unravel closely guarded secrets.

As the ostracized mother of young twins, Raver exudes a quiet perseverance in this role. It’s a heartbreaking story that deals with hope and forgiveness in the end. While somewhat predictable (as Lifetime movies can be), Bond of Silence details what can happen when teenagers binge drink and parties escalate beyond control.

Bond of Silence premieres Monday, August 23, at 9 pm (ET/PT) on LIFETIME


Choice Quotes: The Other Guys

August 22, 2010

Who’s that talking?

It’s the FRONTLINE narration app.

We were going to do a Chechnyain version of Dora the Explorer. It went terribly wrong


MUSIC: Following The Charlatans Part III

August 21, 2010

with Tim Burgess

September 26, 1995, The Paradise, Boston

The Charlatans played an amazing show to a less-than-appreciate crowd. I was almost embarrassed to be from Boston. People were so mellow and just stood there the whole time. How can you not move around to the Charlies?

Afterward, we waited inside the club, thinking that they might come out by the stage and hang out for a bit. Jon had dyed his hair red. Rob had the flu and also had had two teeth pulled earlier that day so was not feeling that great.

We decided to take off and started to walk out. Rob walked out ahead of us with a bunch of bags. I really thought he was going to leave and that would be it. Some girl stopped Rob to give him a bouquet of daisies and continued to walk with him to the tour bus. As Rob walked onto the bus with one bag, he turned around. “Do you want to come in for some tea?”

We laughed because it was so cute. Of course, once we got on the bus, the drink of choice was beer. The daisies went right into the trash which I fished them out and brought home. I told Rob how Tim had told me earlier that he was going to play me some Chemical Brothers and he sent a roadie to get some tapes but couldn’t find the right one.

“Are you coming to any more shows?” Rob asked. “It’s too far right?” And for some reason this time around I wasn’t that pumped to go to a bunch of shows. One reason may be because Rob told us that they would be coming back in the winter to play bigger venues. If only I had known that would be the last chance I would get to see sweet Rob.

Sometime in July of 1996, I received a call from Dee Dee who gave me the devastating news that Rob had been killed in a car accident while worked on the newest Charlatans album in South Wales. Now I just have pictures and wonderful memories of the bits of time I got to spend with such a talent.

September 29, 1997- The Paradise, Boston

The Charlatans are on tour for the first time without Rob. Before the show, I see Tim and hang around with him. He is in a good mood and seems happy to see me. The show is brilliant. Afterward, I see Jon. He gives me the most amazing hug and says, “Now that’s a lot of loving isn’t it?”

It felt great mostly because I felt like I belonged. It was as if after all this time they wanted me around. Martin was as affectionate as well. I went to the tour bus to say good-bye to Tim. He invited me in. I said, “The last time I was on the bus was with Rob . . .” Suddenly, Tim said bitterly, “Amy, all you’ve done tonight is talk about Rob. We all knew Rob a lot better than you did.” He then stormed to the sleeping quarters and slammed the door. I went back to tell Martin and Jon what had happened and they consoled me. I felt really selfish to have said that to Tim.

Encore

A few years later, the boys came around again, they invited me on the bus after the show and this time Tim definitely (finally?) knew me and seemed very amiable and bubbly and talkative. He even gave me their newest CD, Wonderland.

[Writer’s note: The Charlatans came back to Boston a few years ago to play a radio show. Hugs all around for this girl. This year, the band has a new release and another North American tour planned.]

all cuddly with Jon Brookes


Bundchen/Brady watch: Gisele’s HOPE lingerie campaign

August 21, 2010


INTERVIEW: author Zoe Ferraris

August 20, 2010

Zoe Ferraris earned her MFA in Fiction from Columbia University in 2006. After the first Gulf War, Ferraris lived in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia with her then-husband and his family, a group a Saudi-Palestinians. She has a daughter and lives in San Francisco. In her second novel, City of Veils, she deftly weaves together an intricate tale of individual struggles with antiquated customs. Ferraris illuminates the varying levels of religious devotion and the status of women in Saudi Arabia from several viewpoints.

Amy Steele [AS]: Where did the idea for this story come from?

Zoe Ferraris [ZF]: City of Veils is a follow-up to my first novel, Finding Nouf. I wrote Veils because I really felt that there was more to say about Saudi Arabia and that my characters have further to go. In particular, I wanted to give a wider perspective of Jeddah. It’s a fantastically diverse and complex place. Two books won’t do it justice.

AS: What kind of research did you do about women’s rights and the treatment of women in Saudi Arabia?

ZF: A lot of it came from first-hand experience, but obviously I haven’t lived through everything, so I did a lot of reading. These days my primary interest is in talking to people who live there and hearing what things are really like on the ground. No matter what the media says, no matter what the “official” law is, when somebody lives through something, it’s always going to be more real.

AS: How did living in Saudi Arabia influence your writing about the culture?

ZF: I went there with the notion that women were catastrophically oppressed by evil male tyrants, but living there I realized that men suffer from gender segregation, too. In some ways I felt more sorry for them. My ex-husband spent a very long day at work and would come home to me and his sisters, who’d beg him to take us out, take us ANYWHERE, we’ve been stuck HOME all day. No, we haven’t cooked dinner. YOU have to take us to the grocery store. And the drug store. And so-and-so has to go to the doctor…. I started feeling sorry for the evil male tyrant.

AS: What do you think that the people of Saudi Arabia think of Americans? The Saudi Arabian government is such an ally and yet we look away from the mistreatment of women.

ZF: It’s tricky to generalize what a whole nation thinks, but I’ll say this: I usually come away from the Middle East thinking that people seem to love and hate America in equal measure. On one hand, it’s the Big Bad Evil Empire that goes to war for oil and sides with Israel against the poor Palestinians. Mostly, we’re convenient targets for rage — most of it misplaced, in my opinion. On the other hand, who can resist a country that invented the internet, cell phones, and Pamela Anderson?

One of things that comes out in City of Veils is just how integral the behavior of women is to national, religious and political identity. And that’s not really something we should be interfering with. I hope we stay hands-off with the Saudi government because we know it’s not our job to “fix” the way they think. It’s our job to recognize that we don’t agree (perhaps) with their policies, but until a bunch of Saudi women come asking us for help, we leave it alone. I say good call, American government. Let the Saudis fix the Saudis.

AS: What do you like best and least about Saudi Arabia?

ZF:
Best: the hospitality. People are so generous with their time and energy.
Worst: realizing that it’s so frickin hot that I wouldn’t leave the house even if I could.

AS: Who is your favorite character in City of Veils and why?

ZF: Nayir is still the best. It’s like he’s my favorite son and I’m trying to hide it from the others but they all know anyway and figure he deserves it because he’s had such hard luck.

AS: Why did you involve Westerners, Eric, Miriam and Mabus in City of Veils and why do you think some Westerners are attracted to the Mid East culture and Islam?

ZF: I really wanted to include an outsider’s perspective because there are so many non-Saudis living in Saudi Arabia. I’ve also known a lot of Americans who’ve lived in Jeddah.

Who knows why anyone gets interested in something? I was drawn to Saudi Arabia when I met my ex-husband. There could be a hundred personal reasons I found the place so enigmatic and confusing and wonderful, but essentially, love drew me in.

AS: Do you think that what Middle Easterners believe about Americans is what they have culled from television and film?

ZF: This is such a scary thought. I mean, shut your eyes and let a random episode of Temptation Island pop into your head. And try not to imagine a bunch of Muslim teenagers sitting around their illegal satellite TV in Jeddah thinking that all Americans run around in bikinis having sex with their neighbors. Or that we’re all super rich vapid housewives. Or heck, that we can all dance and sing. Our national storytelling lurches so happily into the freak-show factor, I kind of want to say that we deserve what we get.

AS: Did you base Katya on any women you met in Saudi Arabia?

ZF: In a way, she was inspired by a few women I met there who were highly educated and who were working outside the home as well as raising families. I was really interested in these women except that the ones I seemed to meet were often extremely devout. I started getting the idea that maybe they cloaked themselves in devoutness to protect themselves from criticism. So a woman works outside the home, and has a successful career, but no one is going to say she’s a bad Muslim, because every time you talk to her, she’s so intense that you get scared for your mortal soul. I really wanted Katya to be more moderate. I eventually started meeting more moderate-thinking women, and I’d say they’re the majority.

AS: The prostitution and taking of “summer wives/ temporary wives” in Saudi Arabia is so strange and layered. How did you find out about it?

ZF: I see this as a close relative of the “misyar” marriage, which is essentially a marriage where the man has no financial responsibility to his wife. Both parties sign a fake marriage document, in case the religious police stop them in public. In other words, quick and easy. Or as an Arab friend of mine jokes: “Muslim dating.” There’s no real commitment in either “summer weddings” or “misyar” marriages. But because society is so strict about couples being married, then the couple has to come up with a fake or temporary marriage license.

A good friend of mine in Saudi first told me about these kinds of situations back in the early 90s. He used to buy his marriage licenses with a row of condoms stapled to the top. As I started researching “summer weddings” for City of Veils, I realized there’s a whole niche industry going on, what essentially amounts to legal prostitution.

AS: UAE is going to crack down on Bluetooth/ smart phone usage. How will this affect those in Saudi Arabia?

ZF: Jeez, if an open place like the UAE is cracking down, I can’t imagine the Saudis will be far behind. Bluetooth is really challenging in a country where women are supposed to stay hidden or modestly covered. It’s kind of the new revolution in flirting. And dating. And generally communicating with the opposite sex. A crack-down would be depressing news.

AS: Why did you want to write a thriller?

ZF: In Finding Nouf, the mystery aspect grew out of a need: I wanted Nayir, a devout Muslim and generally earnest guy, to be put into a situation where he would have to cross the gender segregation lines. The situation would have to be important enough to make him do it, and I figured murder was one of the only things that fit the bill for him. A woman dies and nobody seems to think it’s odd. But he does, so he has a higher moral cause to go prying into a woman’s life.

This subject still interests me in City of Veils. A woman dies, and it’s difficult and tricky to find out how she lived her life. Even as a legitimate police investigator, you still have to cross segregation lines, you still have to break down barriers of courtesy and privacy that seem a lot higher in Saudi than they are in other places.

AS: How does your novel compare to your own experience living in Saudi Arabia?

ZF: When I lived in Saudi, I felt like every time I turned around, something humorous or goofy was happening. We’d go have a picnic at a disused runway at the airport (it offered privacy and trees) but the guards would catch us. They would wait until we were settled before turning on the sprinklers to chase us all out. Or during a wedding one day, the doorbell rang and we opened it to find my four-year-old niece, who had run away and managed to make it halfway across town before some old baker noticed her and brought her into his store. She wouldn’t tell him where she lived, so he had to ply her with cookies. The baker was standing at our door, looking completely frazzled. Her stubbornness had worn him out.

I’d love to convey some of that lightness in my writing. It pops up now and then, but as an overall theme it doesn’t seem right in the context of murder.

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City of Veils: A Novel

Finding Nouf

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The Swimming Pool: book review [great end-of-summer read]

August 20, 2010

Title: The Swimming Pool
Author: Holly LeCraw
ISBN: 978-0385531931
Hardcover: 320 pages
Publisher: Doubleday; 1 edition (April 6, 2010)
Category: contemporary fiction
Review source: publisher
Rating: 4/5

Holly LeCraw is a first-time author to watch. She’s written quite an unpredictable page-turner. The Swimming Pool contains a plenitude of secrets that could have devastating effects on all involved. The setting: Cape Cod. Siblings Jed and Callie take some time off to stay at the family’s house on the Cape. Jed leaves his job in Atlanta and Callie leaves her husband back in Greenwich, Conn. Callie has two young children and her husband works in New York during the week. The story involves intricate family secrets that connect two families in rather unexpected ways.

Both Callie and Jed have many questions and unresolved feelings toward the deaths of their parents. Their mom Betsy was killed at her home in Atlanta and the case remains unsolved. Their father also died under mysterious circumstances—most likely a heart attack—at the wheel of his car. LeCraw deftly unravels the past and mixes it with the present through a riveting narrative style. Jed finds a bathing suit boxed up on a shelf in the attic and recalls a beautiful woman named Marcella, an acquaintance of his parents. He concludes that his father was having an affair and when he travels to Connecticut to speak with Marcella, he ends up engulfed in a fiery relationship with her. Why I waited so long to pick up and read this book, I have no idea. When people want suggestions on great summer reads, I would absolutely recommend The Swimming Pool.

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FILM: 10 Reasons to See THE SWITCH with Jennifer Aniston and Jason Bateman

August 19, 2010

1. Jason Bateman turns in an extraordinary performance as Wally, a successful guy who falters with personal relationships and worries about almost everything.
2. Sharp and clever script by Allan Loeb.
3. Based on short story by Jeffrey Eugenides [Middlesex, The Virgin Suicides].
4. seeing the film is a great FU to Bill O’Reilly who thinks that a film about single motherhood is a BAD thing?
5. As Kassie, Aniston is not the typical desperate-to-get-married-and-have-a-family woman.
6. Aniston and Bateman have fantastic comedic timing.
7. Jeff Goldblum, Wally’s co-worker/ friend, is sexy and hysterical as always.
8. Multi-talented Juliette Lewis plays Kassie’s best friend.
9. Kassie [Aniston], like many single women, makes her own plan to conceive.
10. The trailer doesn’t give away all the funniest parts of the film.


Choice QUOTE: from An Innocent, a Broad by Ann Leary

August 19, 2010

I think it’s a crime that analysts sit listening to people like me whine about this slight or that misunderstanding when somebody like my mother walks about with rich secrets buried beneath the perky mantle of modified reality she has created.

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An Innocent, a Broad


Proust’s Overcoat: book review

August 19, 2010

Title: Proust’s Overcoat: The True Story of One Man’s Passion for All Things Proust
Author: Lorenza Foschini
ISBN: 978-0061965678
Hardcover: 144 pages
Publisher: Ecco; 1 edition (August 3, 2010)
Category: biography
Review source: publisher
Rating: 4/5

Guerin also had a taste for secrets and a love for hidden things.

Proust’s Overcoat is a charming story about Parisian businessman Jacques Guerin and his obsession with writer Marcel Proust. To be devoured in one sitting, this story enchants by emphasizing the connection between Guerin and Proust. As author Lorenza Foschini takes the reader on this avid collector’s quest, she delves into the personalities of both the fan and the talented writer. Prout’s Overcoat does not merely chronicle the amassment of possessions but the reasoning, the emotion and importance of those writings, letters, books, drawings and various objects to both men. It’s a delightful read.

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The Patterns of Paper Monsters: book review

August 17, 2010

Title: The Patterns of Paper Monsters
Author: Emma Rathbone
ISBN: 978-0316077507
Paperback: 224 pages
Publisher: Reagan Arthur / Back Bay Books; 1 edition (August 9, 2010)
Category: contemporary fiction
Review source: publisher
Rating: 3.5/5

Jacob Higgins is a jaded 17-year-old serving a sentence in a Virginia juvenile detention center for attempted armed robbery. His mother is an alcoholic, battered at the hands of her husband. In a journal, Jacob records bitter observations about day-to-day happenings; the cafeteria, his therapist, a budding romance with Andrea and goings-on in the classroom. Author Emma Rathbone’s knack for clever phrasing kept me reading:

My anger is wide and nuanced. It is gaping and ancient. It’s stronger than when you’re in the ocean and a wave pulls you down and you get a sense of some gravitational hinge powering things. It is stronger than that. It is all-encompassing and more glinty than five hundred suburban pools at midday.

Usually my mom is a photocopy of herself printed out on sandpaper. But today she was in color, normal, shifting around in the confines of her own noonday box of sober thought.

While there isn’t anything particularly profound in The Patterns of Paper Monsters, it provides a snapshot into the world of troubled youths. Jacob slowly comprehends the consequences of an individual’s actions. He reflects on what will happen when he gets released and slowly understands his rage. When David, another inmate, attempts to get Jacob involved in a plot to destroy the center, Jacob’s conscience kicks into overdrive. The Patterns of Paper Monsters may not become the next classic literary record of disembodied youth but it’s well worth a read.

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