The Female Brain: book review

November 16, 2009

FemaleBrain

This is a book that all women should read. All men should read it. There IS a difference between male and female brains and the scientific research has been done to back that up. The Female Brain contains a plethora of information. I didn’t intend to write a formal review. I just thought I’d post some of the information I highlighted as I read this.

The principal hub of both emotion and memory formation—the hippocampus—is also larger in the female brain, as is the brain circuitry for language and observing emotions in others. This means that women are, on average, better at expressing emotions and remembering the details of emotional events. [pg. 5]

If you’re a girl, you’ve been programmed to make sure you keep social harmony. This is a matter of life and death to the brain, even if it’s not so important in the twenty-first century. [pg. 21]

During puberty, a girl’s entire biological raison d’être is to become sexually desirable. She begins judging herself against her peers and media images of other attractive females. [pg. 31]

Connecting through talking activates the pleasure centers in a girl’s brain. . . Dopamine is a neurochemical that stimulates the motivation and pleasure circuits in the brain. Estrogen at puberty increases dopamine and oxytocin production in girls. Oxytocin is a neurohormone that triggers and is triggered by intimacy. [pg. 37]

In short-term couplings, for example, men are chasers and women are choosers. That’s not sex stereotyping. It’s our inheritance from ancestors who learned, over millions of years, how to propagate their genes. [pg. 59]

Many sex therapists say that, for women, foreplay is everything that happens in the twenty-four hours proceeding penile insertion. For men, it’s everything that happens three minutes before. Since many parts of a woman’s brain are active at once, she must get into the mood by first relaxing and reconnecting positively with her partner. [pg. 82]

Gut feelings are not just free-floating emotional states but actual physical sensations that convey meaning to certain areas in the brain. [pg. 120]

–Amy Steele

Title: The Female Brain
Author: Luann Brizendine, M.D.
Pages: 269
Release Date: 2006
Publisher: Broadway Books
Review source: my copy
Rating: 4/5


Book Readings: Do I get my book signed?

November 16, 2009

My friend Adam is a huge fan of Jonathan Safran Foer who is reading from Eating Animals tonight for Brookline Booksmith. He told me he wouldn’t wait to get the book signed and that he usually doesn’t. I’m giving him my review copy. He’s helped me a lot with my web site and it’s the least I can do! He’s read Everything is Illuminated four or five times! So I got to thinking about going to reading and getting books signed by authors. Sometimes, what’s the point?

When an author just writes, “Amy, Enjoy the read, xx” I’m not that thrilled. And then years later particularly if it’s a book I will not read again, I feel I should keep it because it’s signed but it is just clutter. I am getting rid of signed copies of Betrayal (about Boston Catholic Church), The Passion of Artemesia, something by Linda Fairstein and I See You Everywhere. I just have so many books to read and new books coming out all the time and there’s the library, I’m not opening these books up again and they don’t “add” to my bookshelf.

But these do– because they have PERSONAL messages:

Don’t Cry by Mary Gaitskill– “To Amy, to whom I want to say I actually AM a feminist.”

Chronic City by Jonathan Lethem– “For Amy. Looking forward to talking.”

Election by Tom Perrotta– “It was great meeting you. Good luck with your writing.”

Of Cats and Men by Nina de Gramont– “To Amy, Great to meet you. With All Best Wishes,”

The Fence by Dick Lehr– “To Amy, Thanks for the interview and Best Regards”

The Ladies Man by Elinor Lipman– “For amy, with thanks for your kind words. Enjoy!”


Readers view: books readings/signings

November 15, 2009

writinglettersI’m working on an article and would adore some help. If you could answer one or any or all of the following questions that would be great.

Please either leave comments with you first name, last initial (last name if you want) and your home state. Be sure you are not Anonymous! Also free to email me if you feel more comfortable. If I use your quote in my final piece I will contact you to clarify before.

–How often do you get your books signed?

–Why do you like to have signed copies of books?

–What is your favorite inscription that an author has ever written to you?

–Would you or have you ever bought a signed copy of a book at a bookstore (not at an event)?

–When you have a signed copy is it saved forever or do you sometimes let it go?

–What is your best memory of an interaction with an author at a book reading/signing?


Fierce Style: book review

November 15, 2009

Fierce Style

Title: Fierce Style: How to Be Your Most Fabulous Self
Author: Christian Siriano
ISBN: 978-0446546010
Pages: 256 (hardcover)
Publisher: Grand Central Publishing (October 5, 2009)
Category: beauty and fashion
Review source: Hatchette Book Group
Rating: 2.5/5

Because that, my divas, is what it means to have fierce style—inside and out. It’s feeling fabulous about yourself, feeling strong, independent, and confident in what you do (all while looking totally ferosh, of course!) It’s about making things happen and tackling one challenge after the next. My hope is that you will find something in the following pages, whether it’s about clothes or something else, something that inspires you to be fierce yourself. Big or small, silly or serious, I hope you take away some inspiration.

On Season 8 of Project Runway, the zebra snapping, skinny jean and vest clad tiny bundle of energy Christian Siriano became the youngest winner. The designer spent tons of time [and hairspray!] on his updated Flock of Seagulls-style hair, always had something to say about everyone and everything on the show and exuded oodles of confidence. Christian knew his fashion and loved every minute of it: that was evident from the first show. He overused the word fierce [ I began to question Tyra Banks’s trademark rights to the word but it never came up on the shows or outside in any media discussions). Now Christian dresses such celebs as Victoria Beckham, Heidi Klum, Whoopi Goldberg and sells his clothing line at Bluefly.com.

Lucky for his fans [and maybe a few people who lack mirrors or haven’t progressed beyond their high school looks], Christian has decided that the world needs to know the inside dish on what he thinks is fabulous and how every woman can look fierce. Most of the items in Fierce Style read like Elle or Marie Claire articles [stop me if you’ve read this one before] or the manual for TLC’s What Not to Wear or Tim Gunn’s Guide to Style. Or even going all the way back to Queer Eye for the Straight Guy [oh sometimes I truly miss those men and that show!].

In the Fierce Style introduction, Project Runway mentor Tim Gunn writes glowingly of Christian: From the onset of his time on Runway, it was nothing but “wow” moments. It was the ambitiousness of his ideas and his deft ability to execute them. I would see his sketches and think, “How is this going to happen?” And shortly I learned, well, it is going to happen. And it’s going to happen consistently. There’s exuberance in his designs—nothing is ever a basic silhouette. It’s all about the details. And he takes enormous risks. What I love about risk taking is that it is how great work comes about—greatness doesn’t come from playing it safe.

That’s why to me, Christian epitomizes a fashion designer as opposed to a clothing designer.

Scattered throughout the book is the Fearless Tip. [Fierce Style also list’s Fearless Celebrity Tips and we know that they are in touch with real people.]

Here are a few:

–Thinking back on your interests as a kid can be a great starting place for developing your look today.

–It’s important to look to the present. Pop culture and your current interests can impact your fashion sense today.

-It’s better to have one amazing real piece that will last forever than a thousand fakes, no matter how authentic they may look. [Every Today Show fashion segment guest states this.]

–Remember—style isn’t always about being eccentric or crazy.

–Take your focus away from the negative and focus on what’s positive and what’s fabulous. The more you do that, the more fierce you will feel!

Other fierce and ferosh tips that Christian describes in the book:

10 things not to wear if you want to be fabulous

  1. wire frame glasses
  2. UGG boots [I don’t care, I like mine]
  3. flip-flops [kudos on calling out THIS HUGE fashion faux pas]
  4. shapeless jeans
  5. sweatpants
  6. hoodies
  7. big logos
  8. baseball hats [agreed!]
  9. fabric band watches
  10. polyester fabrics

Christian’s Daily Bag Must-Haves [did Nina Garcia approve this?]

–cell phone [oh, really?]

–wallet [come on, Christian]

–oversized planner [no we just use our iPhone or Blackberry or Palm Pilot for that]

–A can of hair spray [a can? Good-bye Ozone]

–Bronzer [yuk]

Top 10 Dream Pieces [Christian’s editor must have reminded him that the U.S. is in a recession and has an unemployment rate of 10% because he goes on to talk about Nine West, Target, Payless and a few other “bargain” places]

  1. Burberry trench coat
  2. A big, fun Marc Jacobs bag
  3. A classic black leather bag by Yves Saint Laurent
  4. A Marni accessory [don’t know who that is]
  5. Edgy heels by Alexander McQueen, Vivienne Westwood, Marni, or Proenza Schouler]
  6. Classic stiletto heels by Louboutin, Manolo, or Jimmy Choo
  7. Chloe boots
  8. A Prada suitcase
  9. A pair of classic black Wolford tights
  10. A Diane von Furstenberg wrap dress-preferably a print

My Fierce Favorite [writer’s note: I chose what stood out for me]

Food—Subway, Yodels, Frozen veggie burgers

Music—Mariah Carey, Christina Aguilera, Rihanna

Movies—Glitter, The Devil Wears Prada, The Bourne Series [someone has a crush on Matt Damon!]

TV Shows– Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Full House, Saved by the Bell

Although Christian throws in some interesting biographical information– He started worked at an Orange Julius at age 13 [is that legal?] in Annapolis, Maryland and moved on to Bubbles, a beauty salon. He interned in London then for Vivienne Westwood and after her, Alexander McQueen [no wonder he had so much confidence on the show. He may have been young but he had plenty of real-world experience]– Fierce Style is all over the map and rather tired. You know how magazines recycle the same story ideas? Most seem to be in this book. It would have been better as solely a  unique style manual or as a fun book on Christian’s rise to fame. Fierce Style is a beautiful looking, coffee-table kind of book. I wanted it to be fun and rich with fresh and special ideas. Unfortunately, Christian failed to reveal any new tips in these pages.

 

 


The Answer Man: DVD review

November 14, 2009

answerman

You don’t want to help or know anybody. I feel more alone now than the day we met.–Elizabeth

Arlen Faber commands “10% of the God Market” from writing one book, God and Me, two decades ago. Is he for real or a fraud? Is he really this enlightened spiritual master who can speak to God, has God’s ear or is he just some grouchy, cranky guy like the rest of us? No one has ever seen what he looks like. He’s never been interviewed. As the 20th anniversary of his book approaches, his agent urges him to reveal his identity. He meets two people that change his perspective on his own life. First, there’s a bookstore manager, Kris [Lou Taylor Pucci] just returned from a rehab program. He’s lost, confused and looking for answers. Soon he finds out who Arlen truly is and they broker a deal where he can ask Arlen questions and Arlen can trade him books weekly. Second, Arlen throws out his back moving books at his apartment and literally crawls to a chiropractor, Elizabeth [Lauren Graham], who immediately enchants him. They begin to date and he’s charming to her and sweet and nurturing to her son. But Elizabeth also begins to see another side of Arlen she does not like. Arlen may have written a know-it-all book but he doesn’t have the answers anymore. He needs support and validation just like everyone else. Arlen Faber is the best role Jeff Daniels has had since The Squid and The Whale. The depth and layers of indie characters suit him. The Answer Man is a sharp film, filled with complex characters.


WHITE COLLAR: interview with Tiffani Thiessen

November 13, 2009

Tiffani

White Collar has a similar style to Burn Notice [USA] and Leverage [TNT] with its funky music and editing style [stopping film to provide names and titles of people]. Neal Caffrey [Matt Bomer] is a charmer. He’s a grifter, dreamer, high roller, and flashy sort of guy. He’s a master forger and art thief and done a number of other white collar crimes that put him in prison. Peter Burke [Tim DeKay] is the Company Man [a “working guy…not cappuccino in the clouds.”] He works for the FBI. He’s constantly asking his FBI colleagues: “Do any of you Harvard grads know…?” or “How many of you went to Harvard?” Tiffani Thiessen plays Burke’s wife Elizabeth, an event planner. She’s inquisitive, challenging and smart and we’re gradually learning more about her.

Moderator    Our first question will come from the line of Jamie Steinberg from Starry Constellation

 J. Steinberg   Hi, it’s a pleasure to speak with you today.

 T. Thiessen      Thank you, honey.

 J. Steinberg     Congratulations on your addition as well.

 T. Thiessen      Thank you very much.  It’s exciting news indeed. 

 J. Steinberg      I’m sure.  What made you want to be a part of this show?

 T. Thiessen        Ever since I read the script, which has been a little over a year ago now, I fell in love with it.  I fell in love with the characters.  I fell in love with the show, and more and more, when the cast was brought together, the more excitement I had for the show and wanting to be a part of it.  This is really the first time I feel like in my whole entire career which has been over 25, 26 years of doing this that I finally feel like I’m kind of playing a role a little closer to home for me, which is kind of exciting. 

J. Steinberg           Was there instant chemistry when everyone began working together?  I know you’re very close working together with Tim and Matt as well.

 T. Thiessen            We are, from day one.  I of course had met Tim [DeKay] through the testing process of us being put on screen and doing our scenes together, and we had chemistry from day one.  I absolutely adore that man and then met Matt, actually, after we had already started shooting the pilot.  We actually were on the same flight going to New York to shoot the pilot last year. 

 Then Willie Garson I actually had known just being in the business for so long.  We had met prior, and I’ve always really enjoyed him and loved him, so I was really excited to know that it was actually really kind of a special cast that we were putting together.  I couldn’t be more thrilled with everybody I’m working with.  It’s really a nice group of people.  Being away from home, it makes it so much nicer when you actually like the people you’re working with. 

Moderator     Our next question will come from the line of Joshua Maloni from Niagara Frontier Publishers.  

 J. Maloni          It feels like there’s more to your character than what we’ve seen.  I almost feel like maybe she’s hiding something. 

T. Thiessen                Oh gosh, I’m so curious to know what you think I’m hiding.

 J. Maloni                     What sort of background can we expect as we move along?

T. Thiessen              I think you’ll start to see background on all of our characters, especially the guys.  Surely, this show is definitely the guys’ show.  It’s Matt and Tim’s show, and Willie and I definitely play more of a supporting role, but you will definitely see much more of me in the further episodes as you’re coming along.  Last week or two weeks ago you saw a little bit more of what I really do for a living and kind of my career, which is really nice to kind of see because we really never saw that in the pilot, and it was something that we kind of came up with actually after we shot the pilot. 

 They’re definitely putting more of what I do outside of my relationship with Tim into the show a little bit, and that’ll continue on even, hopefully, in seasons from here on out, which hopefully there’ll be five to ten years of White Collar.  In general, I can’t give you exact specifics, ideas of what’s going to be happening, but I can promise you you’ll see a lot more of her.

 J. Maloni          That’s cool.  What about any sort of action scenes.  Do you get involved in any of the sort of cops and robbers element of it?

 T. Thiessen       I don’t think so.  It’s really not part of my character and my storyline in this show.  Again, I’m definitely a supporting role, especially being that I’m the wife of Tim’s character, but you will see a lot of a triangle in a sense of what I can do and help with Matt’s character as well, especially, I think, when it involves the storyline of Kate.  You’ll see that a lot as well.

Moderator       Our next question will come from the line of Erin Stranyak from Exclusivemagazine.com.   

E. Stranyak                 Now, as a first-time mother, how do you think that it will play out balancing your roles and responsibilities of motherhood and your part on White Collar?

T. Thiessen           You know, that’s a very good question in the sense that I really don’t know being that I am a first-time mom, so it’ll be a very different kind of thing for me being that I’ll be working and being a mother at the same time.  There are millions of people who do it.  My mom did it herself, so I know I can handle it, but it’ll be a very new experience, so it’s hard to say what is going to be like.  It’ll be all brand new for me.

 E. Stranyak          Okay, great.  My second question is the onscreen relationship between you and Tim’s character, Peter, seems to be loving, but also a bit strained by his professional commitments.  Now, with the charming and charismatic Neal Caffrey entering the picture, how do you think this partnership will affect Elizabeth and Peter’s marriage as the show develops?

 T. Thiessen          I don’t know if I would actually use the word strained.  I think in every marriage there’s always the challenge of making time and making priorities in their relationship when people have careers, and what you will start to see more and more is my career, being that it takes up a lot of my time as well.  I think it’s going to give a lot of, not so much looking into Peter’s career and how it affects our marriage.  There’s also my side of it as well. 

 I think she is very understanding to that.  She’s been living with it for so long and knows what he does for a living, and she knows what she married.  I don’t think there’s a strain to it.  I think there’s a challenge.  I think probably the challenge is the word I could use for that.  I think what Neal brings into it is that I think my husband on the show is very kind of black and white in the way he thinks, and I think Neal is definitely much more colorful, and I think he will definitely teach my husband a little more of the colorful side of being romantic and all those things that you do need in a marriage as well. 

 Moderator       Our next question will come from the line of Jim Halterman from Jimhalterman.com

J. Halterman         Yes, you bet.  I know you did a short film a couple years ago that you directed, and I wanted to know is that something you still want to be doing?  Is there a chance maybe you could direct an episode of White Collar

 T. Thiessen                  I do.  You’re so sweet.  Yes, they definitely know directing is something that’s in my thinking of wanting to do more and more, and it all really just depends on time and all that.  I wanted to make sure that when we started the show my focus was on my character and what I’m doing as an actress.  Now with my new role coming as a mother, it’s going to be a little more challenging, but it’s definitely something I want to do more of, so yes.

 J. Halterman                Okay.  You’ve been in the business for a long time since you were very young.  If you weren’t in the entertainment business, what else would you want to be doing?

 T. Thiessen                  It’s so funny.  Last year when we did the pilot, we really didn’t know what Elizabeth’s character was going to do for a living.  They had some ideas, and they kind of changed it, and then I had come to Jeff Eastin, our creator of the show and said, you know, it’s funny.  I think it could work, but it’s something I’ve always wanted to do if I wasn’t an actor.  I’d always wanted to be an event planner, and I think it could work really well for Elizabeth’s character being that she’s in New York City.  We could really show the city in a different light, and they loved it.  I have to say funny enough, that was my idea, and that’s exactly what I would do if I wasn’t an actor.

Moderator         Our next question will come from the line of Sarah Fulghum from Totallyher.com.   

S. Fulghum                  What would you say to those that haven’t seen White Collar yet to convince them to watch? [writer's note: what an assanine question]

 T. Thiessen                  Oh gosh, well, besides having really cute guys on the show, it’s definitely the type of TV and movies that I like to see.  I’m a huge fan of The Thomas Crown Affair and those kinds of feels of movies and shows and 48 Hours, which is so interesting, Catch Me If You Can, things like that.  If people are really into those kinds of movies and those kind of story-telling, they have to watch this show.  It is so absolutely entertaining.  The characters are so rich and so fun to watch and follow.

 As well as you see New York City in a completely different way.  It’s shot in a beautiful way.  It’s interesting, a lot of shows that are shot in New York City can be a little more dark and gray, and this show really, I think, kind of captures New York City in a really beautiful light, and it’s nice.

Moderator       Our next question will come from the line of Alix Sternberg from thetvchick.com   

A. Sternberg       You’ve played a wide variety of characters.  How do you think these roles have prepared you to play Elizabeth Burke?

 T. Thiessen                  It’s funny.  I think I’ve made this statement before a few times, but it is really true is that this is the first character in over 25 years of me doing this that I actually feel like it’s the closest to me that I’ve played in all the different shows and movies that I’ve done in my career.  I think it’s more about myself and my own experience that I can bring to Elizabeth.  She has this really solid wonderful marriage.  I feel like I have that with my own husband.  She’s career-driven, which I feel like I am.  It’s all those things that you put towards a character like her that I feel that are definitely very much me. 

 A. Sternberg           Yes, and my other question is USA Network has some big hits out there right now.  How does it feel to be a part of the network?

 T. Thiessen                  Absolutely exciting.  I tell them this all the time that I feel blessed to be on such an amazing network.  This is the first time I’ve ever done a cable show, and I’m utterly thrilled and over-the-moon with the fact that they’re so supportive and they’re so behind their shows, and they really do give such a great chance of us really trying to make it.  It’s nice.  It’s nice to feel like we’re really wanted in a sense and really have a lot of passion behind us.  It’s a lovely, lovely feeling.

Moderator      Our next question will come from the line of Stefen Blitz from Forcesofgeek.com

 S. Blitz                        I have two questions.  For the first one is you mentioned that Elizabeth is the closest to your personality.  Do you know if your pregnancy will be incorporated into the show?

 T. Thiessen             I don’t know.  That’s actually going to be up to the writers and the executive producers and USA and Fox and everybody involved.  I’m going to be still somewhat not too pregnant along when we’re finally coming to the end of the season.  We really don’t have too much more left, so it’s really up to them if they want to.  I’m open to whatever they feel.  We tried to time it to a certain degree so I wouldn’t show too, too much. 

 S. Blitz            Awesome.  We’ve also grown up watching you as you’ve grown up in front of the camera.  What’re the challenges that you have if any in creating a new character knowing that you have a career behind you?

 T. Thiessen          Yes, well, it’s bittersweet at times.  There’s good and bad.  There are people who of course followed my career and who have loved the shows that I’ve done in the past and are always up to seeing something new of myself or any of my past co-stars, which is really wonderful.  Then there’s always people who have opinions, and of course, that’s how the world works, and that’s A-OK. 

 Some people were really open and loving to the fact that I’m actually playing a role that’s quite different than what I’ve played in the past.  Like I said, it’s definitely much more close to home for me, this character, but some people had a hard time with it.  Some people didn’t believe the relationship between Tim and I, which is so funny to me because we had chemistry from day one, but that’s how the entertainment business works.  That’s how people are, and that’s okay.  Everybody has their opinions.

Moderator                   Our next question will come from the line of Kiko Martinez from Extra, Chicago.  .

 K. Martinez                 Well, we’ve seen on the show that Neal has escaped from prison for love.  What’s the most romantic thing a guy’s ever done for you, and then maybe what is the cheesiest thing a guy’s ever …. [writer's note: this is the question you came up with. boring...]

 T. Thiessen       Oh, gosh.  Well, my husband himself is definitely romantic.  I mean, he is romantic almost every day whether it’s leaving me cute little notes somewhere throughout the house or the way he proposed to just the day we got married.  He was amazing and romantic in everything he did, so I’m blessed to have a husband like that.  The cheesiest, God, that would be really hard.  I wouldn’t want to out anybody because I feel like anybody who wants to put themselves and their heart out there is a wonderful thing, and we shouldn’t put them down for it, right?

 K. Martinez            You’ve been on a few shows that have been a little short lived in your career.  What makes White Collar something you think can surpass a couple of seasons?

 T. Thiessen                  Well, I think a few reasons.  People are already enjoying it.  We’ve had a lot of great feedback and a lot of great critics really loving the characters and the storylines and the show and us on it, which is exciting, the fact that we are on a network like USA.  They are so behind us, and they really put us out there, and it’s nice to have the passion behind us because I think that helps a lot.  These network shows, sometimes they don’t give it a chance, and it’s nice to know that we have somebody who’s really given us a chance.  I think we, knock on wood, I think you’re going to see us for awhile.

Moderator          Our next question will come from the line of Courtney Schinke from Raked Reviews blog.   

C. Schinke                   On television, there tends to be a fine line between that perfect supportive spouse that’s believable and the one that is so over the top that you’re like, no one in this world exists quite like this, and you are actually doing a wonderful job being that supportive spouse that we definitely believe.  How do you strike that balance, and how do you plan to keep it going?

 T. Thiessen                  Thank you so much first of all.  That’s very sweet of you to say.  That means a lot to me because I really try, and Tim and I both have long talks about this as well as our creator, Jeff, that we really wanted this to be a relationship that does work on TV, not one that has a lot of problems, not one that you constantly see drama, which you see a lot on TV. 

Funny enough, Tim and I come from marriages that work, that really do work like that, so I think we really take it from just our own experiences.  Tim’s been married for quite some time to a wonderful woman and has two great kids.  My husband and I have this wonderful relationship and humor has a lot to do with it, communication, all those things I feel that are so, so important.  I take those just being from my parents who’ve been married for over 45 years.  My grandparents were married for 67 years.  It’s important, so I feel like I take from my own life and really try to bring what I can to the relationship and the characters. 

C. Schinke                   Have you had a favorite moment so far, either one that’s coming up that we can keep an eye out for or one that’s already been aired?

 T. Thiessen                  Wow, that’s hard.  I think there are a couple episodes coming up that I’m definitely a little heavier in, which is kind of nice to really get to explore my character a little bit, but each episode is so exciting and so fun, and it’s such a ride that it’s hard for me to pick out one more than the other or one little bit more than the other.  That’s a hard choice.  I have to think about that a little longer, and I know we wouldn’t have time. 

Moderator                   Our next question will come from the line of Amy Steele from Entertainment Realm.   

 

 A. Steele                     What is it like to work with such a male-dominated cast?

 T. Thiessen                  It’s great, actually.  It’s not my first time, so I feel like I’m definitely, I have the experience.  With past shows, I did a show called Fastlane that was literally me and two guys.  It’s funny.  I don’t know why, but I tend to gravitate to shows that have a lot of male co-stars.  I grew up with two brothers, so I guess it’s just normal for me to be around guys.  It’s fun.  It’s where I feel comfortable, I have to say.

 A. Steele                     Then, being over 30 in Hollywood—

 T. Thiessen                  You can say it, over 35.

 A. Steele                     I just turned 40, so I still—

 T. Thiessen                  That’s exciting.  I love it.

 A. Steele                     What kind of pressures do you think that women or you, yourself, still face as far as looks and beauty pressures and things like that?

 T. Thiessen                  You’re right.  It’s all there.  It will never go away.  I don’t think our business and the entertainment business in general will ever just be okay with how people are.  I think we’re in a business that critiques everything we do, and you kind of just take it with a grain of salt.  I look at my grandmother, and I think she’s aged beautifully, so I hope that I could be a smidgen of how she’s aged. 

There’s nothing you can do.  All you can do is take of yourself and do the things that make you feel good and make you healthy and age appropriately, but there’s always going to be people out there are going to say something, and there’s nothing you can do about it.  Like I said, you have to take it with a grain of salt.

 A. Steele                     You look great, and thank you very much.

 T. Thiessen                  Thank you.

Moderator                   Our next question will come from the line of Conception Allen from Blast magazine.   

C. Allen                       Yes.  You mentioned that you had some influence on the career of your character.  That being said, are you going to be able to also provide future input into shaping and developing her as well?  I know that the producers and writers have the job of carrying that out, but would you have a chance to put some input into that?

 T. Thiessen                  It’s interesting.  We are very lucky to be on a show (and that’s all of us across the board) that our executive producers and writers are very open to anything we have to say, which is so nice because not a lot of shows are like that.  They believe a collaboration always works best, and not that we are there writing the show, nor is that what we’re supposed to be doing, but they’re always very open to any time we have a question or concern or have an idea, they’re always open.  It’s nice to be able to get on the phone or sit down with them and talk with them about it, and we all feel that way, which is really great.

 C. Allen           Your character is one of the, obviously, highlights of this show.  Will we have, I know you said that she won’t necessarily be doing the action.

 T. Thiessen                  No, I don’t see that unless something changes, but who knows.  I don’t see it, though.

 C. Allen                       Will we see maybe a centered episode around her, perhaps, maybe?

 T. Thiessen                  I don’t know.  That’s a question that really I can’t answer.  Again, I say the show really is Matt and Tim.  It’s their show, and it was from day one.  I knew that coming in.  I came in knowing that this role was supportive, which I was completely happy with. 

 It’s funny.  I’ve been doing this for so long that I was actually okay not having to work every day and having the weight of a new show on my shoulders.  As well as I really just fell in love with this character, and I fell in love with the cast that they started to put together, but you’ll see definitely, there’s an episode coming up that I’m much more heavy in, and you’ll see that every now and then that I’ll be a little heavier in certain episodes.  It’s not something you’re going to see every week because, again, it’s not my show.  I’m a supportive role on the show.

Moderator                   Thank you.  Our next question will come from the line of Lena Lamoray from Lenalamoray.com

  L. Lamoray                 Did you ever think that your event planning skills would be useful to the FBI, and when will they bring you in as an official paid consultant?

 T. Thiessen                  I know, really.  I don’t know.  That’s a good question.  That could actually be kind of funny.  No, it was actually when we shot that episode, it was an episode we shot a little later, and they really enjoyed the episode so much, they pulled it up and made it a little closer to the beginning of the show, which is great.  It was really fun to do, and it was really fun to work more with Matt and the guys in general, which was great.  Again, like I had mentioned, you’ll see certain episodes that I might be a little heavier in, but the event planning thing is exciting because, like I said, I’ve always wanted to do that on the side or if I ever wanted to give up acting, that’s what I wanted to do.  It’s kind of fun to live out a little bit of a dream of mine on my actual job now.

 Moderator                   Our next question will come from the line of Latoria Ferguson from Blog without an Original Title,

L. Ferguson                 I apologize in advance since every question I could possibly think to ask has already been asked.

 T. Thiessen                  That’s a good thing, though.

 L. Ferguson                 What specifically about the White Collar pilot script drew you to it?

 T. Thiessen                  It’s kind of the type of storyline, kind of storytelling that I really, really enjoy.  The Catch Me If You Can, The Thomas Crown Affair, those types of movies are always on the top of my list as well as James Bond and things like that.  Those are the kinds of movies that I really tend to watch and really see myself.  When I read the script, I was like, oh my gosh, this is such a show that I would watch, and I can’t really say that about a lot of the shows that I’ve done in the past in my career. 

 Then, the more and more I got involved with the show and just watching how it was being cast, I was really excited when they cast Matt.  I had seen some of Matt’s work and heard what kind of an up-and-coming, amazing actor he was.  Willie, I had known, and I’ve always enjoyed his work.  Then when they cast Tim, I was over the moon because I’ve always loved his work and some of the shows that he’s done, and then just the character of Elizabeth, like I had mentioned as well.  It was kind of like the first time I read a role where I was like, wow, this is really kind of more me.  I could actually be playing someone closer to home for myself, which was kind of a nice change for me.

 L. Ferguson                 Okay, that’s good.  I realize that you’ve been working a lot with Tim and Matt, obviously, because they’re the leads, but have you gotten to work a lot with Willie and Natalie who just joined the cast?

 T. Thiessen                  I haven’t.  I got to work with Natalie once or twice, I think, a few weeks ago, which was fun, very briefly, though.  Willie, I still have not worked with and I don’t know if we’ll ever see the two of them in the same scene together because their story lines are so separated, but it would be fun because I love Willie, and I’ve know Willie for years.  On our off days, we spend a lot of time together.  We’re actually quite good friends.  It’s just funny how we don’t actually work together on the show. 

 Moderator                   Our last question will come from the line of Kiko Martinez from Extra, Chicago.  Please go ahead.

 K. Martinez                 Hi, Tiffani.  My favorite scenes in the first few episodes have been the watch, when you give him the watch.

T. Thiessen                  Yes, I like those, too.

 K. Martinez                 And also when you take away the watch, but that second one, can you explain to me a little bit about that?  It seemed a little bit more metaphorical..

 T. Thiessen                  The second when I gave him his watch back, you mean?

 K. Martinez                 Correct.

 T. Thiessen                  Yes, it turned out to be such a great scene, and it was such a nice story line to really see the intimacy and the realness between Peter and Elizabeth, which was really nice.  I think Elizabeth’s character is always worried about her husband because of what he does for a living.  I think she’s used to it, but I don’t think it takes the worry away from her, and I think it was her way of letting Peter know that she needs to know he’s okay.  I do it to my husband all the time where I’m shopping for him, and I may buy him things that I think are great, but they’re not my husband, and I think it was her way of letting him know that I was wrong, and I totally took it in a wrong way, and I need you to be you, especially on such an important day.  It was a really nice touch.  I actually really enjoyed that scene.


Ann Rule’s Everything She Ever Wanted: airs Nov 14 and 15

November 12, 2009

2-part miniseries on LIFETIME TV

Ann Rule’s Everything She Ever Wanted is based on the true story of a woman who would let nothing, including her family, prevent her from having the status and power she felt she deserved. Pat Allansan [Gina Gershon] marries a younger man Tom [Ryan McPartlin] with hopes of becoming part of Atlanta’s elite society. Soon she convinces Tom to buy an over-priced plantation, with the help of his grandparents. Tom has long been estranged from his wealthy parents. Of Pat, Tom’s father [Victor Garber] says: Your wife is a liar. She’s a damn whore. Everyone in town knows that but you. Pat doesn’t let that stop her and manages to have Tom get in touch with his mother to discuss a loan. When Tom’s parents get fatally shot, Tom lands in jail accused of murder. In the meantime, Pat is at home taking care of Tom’s grandparents.

Perfect casting with Gershon. She’s wicked and convincing. My mom said: She’s so cunning and dangerous. Pat wants all the attention and will do whatever it takes to get it. She lies, cheats, manipulates and even poisons. Gershon is riveting as Pat, the Southern belle clinging to her reputation, ideals, pride and respect.

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Gina Gershon as Pat Allansan

There are many preposterous moments in Everything She Ever Wanted and it’s amazing to remember that this is based on true events. The entire mini-series is melodramatic but that’s part of its appeal. How can one woman be so manipulative and deceitful? How can a woman lie and trick and destroy the people who she supposedly loves? It’s just amazing to me.

 Last word from my mom: She is evil. I guess I didn’t think she was at the beginning. Ann Rule wrote a great story and Gina Gershon really pulled off this character.

 Review copy received from Lifetime TV.

 Grade: B-


Guest Post: Matthew Pearl [The Last Dickens] & Giveaway

November 10, 2009

Matthew and I emailed back and forth for some time about having him write a Guest Post or having me interview him. He remarked that he does tons of interviews [and I interview lots of people] and that he enjoyed writing the guest posts he’s done previously. I met Matthew when he spoke [read his post at Porter Square Books], he doesn’ t like to read, at the Westford Public library. Fittingly, I brought my mom and he brought his mom and his grandmother. During his talk, I wrote down something he said: “It’s odd to look over and see your words in someone else’s hands.” And that became the impetus for the post.

lastDickensPOP QUIZ

When you’re writing a manuscript you’re extremely careful about whom you’d give it to read for feedback. It’s not just for writing a novel. Think about one of your college essays—not the one that you stayed up Thursday night to hand in Friday morning, but one that you were actually pouring your heart into. Maybe you asked one of your roommates to read it. But you also probably knew you would never let your other roommate read it. You know, the one who’d say, “This is a first draft, right?”

As a published author you can’t stand in the bookstore and screen customers to see if you approve them as readers. In fact, if you were brave enough to stand around in the bookstore near the New Fiction table, you’d want everyone and their uncle to buy your book. You’d probably start bribing.

I remember the first time I saw someone with a copy of my book outside one of my author events. It was in Park Slope, Brooklyn. Crossing the street, I glanced over at a woman holding a battered paperback of The Dante Club. I said, “That’s my book!” She looked at me funny. I think she thought I meant she had a copy of The Dante Club that belonged to me. Damn that author photo for making me look less disheveled than in real life.

Once when I found myself grounded on the tarmac at Chicago O’Hare for three hours, with the passenger in the middle seat reading my book, this time I said nothing. I was trapped, watching my words flip by. What a surreal feeling. Was he catching the foreshadowing on that page? He read the page too quickly, surely. Should I give him a pop quiz and remove his reading privileges if he fails?

But that wasn’t my book I saw in Park Slope or on the plane, not mine. If I walked into Porter Square Books and picked up a copy of my latest novel, The Last Dickens, and walked out, I’d be shoplifting. There is the paradox: when I started writing, I imagined the point of publication as the moment in which you’d ascend to a new level of authority and control over your work. In fact, it is the moment when you lose control over your book, and when you have to learn to let go of what you thought belonged only to you.

 A writer friend of mine, Cynthia, once got a call from her friend who said:

 “I think I just met your friend.”

 “Who?” Cynthia asked.

 “Haven’t you said you were friends with Matthew Pearl, the author?”

 “Yeah.”

 “I just met him at a poker tournament at Foxwoods.”

I’ve never been to Foxwoods casino and wouldn’t get past the first round of a poker tournament. It turned out there was a guy, who apparently looked nothing like me nor my author photo, who was saying he was Matthew Pearl. Of course, I wouldn’t forbid another writer named Matthew Pearl from existing, but this one was naming my books and saying he wrote them. (Poe, whose love for doppelgangers helped inspire my second novel, The Poe Shadow, would probably smile at this.)

Countless questions entered my head about this impostor. First of all, can’t you pretend to be someone more exciting than me? Second, did you try to get a credit card or a house in my name (as far as I can tell, he didn’t)? Third, do you want to stand around at the bookstore and bribe people for me?

–by Matthew Pearl

Matthew Pearl’s links:

official website

Facebook author page

Twitter: www.twitter.com/MatthewPearl

Giveaway: one copy of The Last Dickens by Matthew Pearl courtesy of Random House. U.S/Canadian residents only. Submit email in comments section. Contest Ends DECEMBER 1.


Eating Animals: book review & giveaway

November 9, 2009

eatinganimalsbookcoverTitle: Eating Animals
Author: Jonathan Safran Foer
ISBN: 978-0316069908
Pages: 352 (hardcover)
Release Date: November 2, 2009
Publisher: Little, Brown and Company
Category: non-fiction
Review source: Hachette Book Group
Rating: 5/5

As my son began life and I began this book, it seemed that almost everything he did revolved around eating. He was nursing, or sleeping after nursing, or getting cranky before nursing, or getting rid of the milk he had just nursed. As I finish this book, he is able to carry on quite sophisticated conversations, and increasingly the food he eats is digested together with the stories we tell. Feeding my child is not like feeding myself: it matters more. It matters because food matters (his physical health matters, the pleasure of eating matters), and because the stories that are served with food matter. These stories bind our family together, and bind our family to others.

At age 12, I stopped eating red meat. Before then I ate raw hamburger [you know, rolled up in a ball] and the chicken livers that my Nana cooked. At 18, I gave up all other meat. I ate fish off and on until a few years ago. Now I’m a non-dairy vegetarian. I’m not vegan because I cannot afford to be. It is a complex and complicated undertaking and can be very expensive. If Alicia Silverstone wants to come to my apartment with a personal chef, I’m more than happy to go vegan.

Eating Animals reads as a cross between a memoir and an investigative journalism expose on factory farming, the humane treatment of animals, and making wise choices in the food that you eat. In between the plethora of facts, Jonathan Safran Foer mixes in his own memories of food, his decisions to become a vegetarian, and his thoughts on the entire United States food industry. Eating Animals is an ambitious undertaking and Jonathan Safran Foer spent three years researching the book, interviewing all kinds of people and traveling throughout the United States in his quest for knowledge. He goes on a rescue mission to a turkey farm with an animal rights activist. He visited Paul Willis’s hog farm in Iowa and also “heritage” poultry farmer Frank Reese. He wanted to become an educated consumer. Safran Foer is clearly anti-factory farming. And honestly, who wouldn’t be? Is Eating Animals going to be a vegetarian manifesto for some? Sure. Many people will not pick up this book because they do not want to know about the food that they are putting in their mouths. I read a passage to my mother and she didn’t want to hear it. Ignorance is bliss, as the saying goes. If people go around not thinking that the food on their plate once roamed a verdant pasture or was crammed into a minute stall just so that they could have tender meat to eat, maybe they’d think twice.

This is why when fully conscious cattle at the (then) largest kosher slaughterhouse in the world, Agriprocessors in Postville, Iowa, were videotaped having their tracheas and esophagi systematically pulled from their cut throats, languishing for up to three minutes as a result of sloppy slaughter, and being shocked with electric prods in their faces, it bothered me even more than the innumerable times that I’d heard of such things happening at conventional slaughterhouses.

To my relief, much of the Jewish community spoke out against the Iowa plant.

Ultimately Eating Animals is for people to read who know little about our agricultural business and want a brisk, thoughtful, exhaustively researched book. It lacks preaching and serves to deliver the goods and let the reader debate the pros and cons of factory farming and food production and to purchase and consume food with a conscious state of mind. Do you know how that chicken got to your table? Did that lobster feel anything when it was thrown into a boiling pot of water? Is the slaughtering of cows as painless a process as the meat industry claims? The reader will find these answers in Eating Animals. If you’re at all squeamish and love your veal, lamb, foie gras, pate, juicy steak, hamburger and just plain old chicken, Eating Animals is not going to be a pleasant or palatable read for you. However, do not let that deter you. The wonderful, sensitive approach of Safran Foer eases the reader into each topic, one toe at a time. It’s an important topic. Along the way, you will also find out about Safran Foer’s own journey to vegetarianism. He writes with honesty, humor, and straightforward clarity.

I’ve restricted myself to mostly discussing how our food choices affect the ecology of our planet and the lives of its animals, but I could have just as easily made the entire book about public health, worker’s rights, decaying rural communities or global poverty—all of which are profoundly affected by factory farming. Factory farming, of course, does not cause all the world’s problems, but it is equally remarkable just how many of them intersect there. And it is equally remarkable, and completely improbable, that the likes of you and me would have real influence over factory farming. But no one can seriously doubt the influence of US consumers on global farm practices.

Let me share some of the highlights:

Ten million land animals are slaughtered for food every year in America [pg. 15]

Many scientists predict the total collapse of all fished species in less than fifty years—and intense efforts are underway to catch, kill, and eat even more sea animals. [pg.33]

Most male layers [chickens that lay eggs] are destroyed by being sucked through a series of pipes onto an electrified plate.  [pg. 48]

Perhaps the quintessential example of bullshit, bycatch refers to sea creatures caught by accident—except not really “by accident,” since bycatch has been consciously built into contemporary fishing methods. . .The average shrimp trawling operation throws 80 to 90 percent of sea animals it captures overboard, dead or dying, as bycatch. [pg. 49]

A University of Chicago study recently found that our food choices contribute at least as much as our transportation choices to global warming. [pg. 58]

Fish build complex nests, form monogamous relationships, hunt cooperatively with other species and use tools. They recognize one another as individuals (and keep track of who is to be trusted and who is not). [pg. 65]

Killing chickens: The conveyer system drags the birds through an electrified water bath. This most likely paralyzes them but doesn’t render them insensible . . .The next stop on the line for the immobile-but-conscious bird will be an automated throat slitter [Netflix Food Inc. and it shows this clearly]. [pg. 133]

In 2004, a collection of the world’s experts on emerging zoonotic diseases gathered to discuss the possible relationship between all those compromised and sick farm animals, and pandemic explosions. [pg. 138]

In parts of the world where milk is not a staple of the diet, people often have less osteoporosis and fewer bone fractures than Americans do. The highest rates of osteoporosis are seen in countries where people consume the most dairy foods. [pg. 147]

Killing pigs: After getting stunned and hopefully rendered unconscious on the first, or at least the second, application of the stun gun, the pig is hung up by its feet and “stuck”—stabbed in the neck—and left to bleed out. [pg.155]

Conservative estimates by the EPA indicate that chicken, hog, and cattle excrement have already polluted 35,000 miles of rivers in twenty-two states (for reference, the circumference of the earth is roughly 25,000 miles). [pg. 179]

According to The Handbook of Salmon Farming: Six sources of suffering for salmon are: (1) water so fouled that it makes it hard to breathe; (2) crowding so intense that animals being to cannibalize one another; (3) handling so invasive that physiological measures of stress are evident a day later; (4) disturbance by farmworkers and wild animals; (5) nutritional deficiencies that weaken the immune system; and (6) the inability to form a stable social hierarchy, resulting in more cannibalism. [pg. 190]

Here’s a list of some famous vegetarians:

Alicia Silverstone        Abbie Cornish

Portia de Rossi            J.M. Coetzee

Benjamin Gibbard       Zooey Deschanel

Alanis Morissette        Shania Twain

Jim Carrey                   Pamela Anderson

Morrissey                    Dennis Rodman

Chris Martin                Liv Tyler

Casey Affleck             Kristen Bell

Chelsea Clinton           Billie Joe Armstrong

Emily Deschanel         Lisa Edelstein

Kevin Eubanks            Traci Bingham

Natalie Portman          Nastassja Kinski

Sir Paul McCartney     Stella McCartney

Cilian Murphy             Damon Albarn

Kate Bush                   Jane Goodall

Thom Yorke                Julie Christie

–review by Amy Steele

Jonathan Safran Foer will be speaking as part of the Brookline Booksmith Reading series on November 11.

GIVEAWAY

GREAT NEWS: HACHETTE BOOK GROUP is graciously providing me with THREE copies of Eating Animals to give away.

To Enter: Leave email in the comment section and if you dare, answer this question: are you a vegetarian or have you considered becoming a vegetarian? Why or Why not?

OPEN TO U.S. AND CANADIAN RESIDENTS ONLY. CONTEST ENDS DECEMBER 1ST.


Ewan McGregor: Feminist– I think YES

November 9, 2009

Ewan McGregor said on Craig Ferguson: “Women are always expected to be naked, and I like to try to be naked in films and have the woman not be naked… It’s a feminist thing that I do.”

borrowed from Feminist Themes


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